He Isn't Interested in a Serious Relationship! So, what am I going to do? 7 Things You Must Do Right Now


Lots of guys go through several relationships before they decide to settle down with a girl. This is not unique to guys and you will find that girls too do the same. If you like your guy but he has made it clear that he is not looking for a serious relationship then there are few things that you need to do. Here is a step by step guide for you.

First decide if he is the ideal guy

Even before you do anything you first have to decide if he is the right guy. If you feel that his integrity is not in doubt then you can try to influence him to be more committed. However, if he is a player then it is better to dump him now.

What does he bring to the table

If your guy has some valid reasons for being non committal then you have to assess what he brings to the table. If he is fun to be with and the sex is fantastic then you can hang onto him till you find a better guy that is willing to commit.

Try and increase the chemistry

Another thing that you should do is check if you can increase the chemistry. Try and do things together and get involved in his passions and his interests. If you know what drives him it will help you a great deal.

Audit your plans

You have certain professional and personal goals. Go over them once again and see if you can fit this guy in it. If you find that even if he commits your goals and plans will eventually cause a rift then either you edit your plans or prepare for a life minus this guy.

Scale down the sex dates

Even if the sex is great it does not mean that you stay in this meaningless relationship. Scale down the sex escapades and see how he reacts. If he does not mind then you can continue to meet him on and off.

Start weighing your options

Since his intentions are known to you it is time you start weighing your options. Do you want to be seen with this guy or would you like to explore other possibilities. If you make a clean break it will be easier for you to find someone that is more understanding and willing to commit. Take your call and don't delay.

Part as friends

This is the final step. There should not be any feeling of hurt as he had made his intentions clear to you, and therefore part as friends.